So the plot thickens, I was just checking all the fuses After reading on another forum Fuse #1 caused this for them and found fuse #1 was blown
PARK LPS SKIM (20A)
Replace it, try the headlight to see if gauges light up. Parking lights come on for a moment then go out again.
Replace it again, really pay attention this time as soon as I turn on the headlights I hear it pop again.
I have a short somewhere to track down...
Edit: Also just realized that means I don’t have tail lights. I have brake lights and blinkers, but no tail lights.
Edit 2: looks like others have said “It's possible the illumination wire going to the radio has been chafed and is shorting to ground. The wire is orange.” I do have what seems to be a pretty poorly done aftermarket stereo install in the Jeep, radio is a bit loose and wobbly in there so maybe that’s it.